I know how you feel, trust me. And from the sound of it you are a teenager going through all the hormonic periods of your life. I've had that period too, but now I'm past it and almost back to normal. It's been really hard for me back then and I would find myself crying and tearing up randomly. But you need to try and learn to control your emotions. Not to force yourself to be happy (because that makes you even more depressed) but to try and look at the brighter side of things. Sometimes having a stress ball helps too (though once I used a stress ball when I was really angry and I ripped it in half... :/).
I also know what it's like for others to see you going through your fase (Lilly's like that right now, no offence Lilly). It really isn't nice. Though don't push everything you feel down and keep it bottled up, that means you might snap at any moment. Try to talk it out with your friends and family. And it helps when you have something to do to distract you. (Don't sit in the dark all alone feeling sorry for yourself, trust me I've tried that, didn't help.) Basically, suck it up and get over it, or try to at least. Because that fase will be over before you know it.
Hope it helps....
Love, Vi xx
Hey! Now we all go through different phases in life, especially growing up with hormones running wild. It sounds like you seem to be having mood swings which is a perfectly normal part of growing up. No body ever stays the same, people are constantly changing but don't let yourself get depressed. If something is seriously upsetting you then it can actually really help to talk to someone! If something is getting me down, I do find it really hard to talk to friends and family - I don't know why. So I find myself asking random people on the internet for advice! I know it may sound silly but it really helps because you can tell them everything without them judging you because they don't actually know you. But sometimes you may just get depressed and don't know why - thats normal too! There are many ways of getting over that! You can try out some new activities, make sure you're not just sitting alone in the dark, go out and get some freash air. Listen to music that you can really relate to! Music really helps me when I don't feel too great. And you said you think you're becoming quite rude? Well, if you are becoming depressed and no one is understanding you, you may find yourself snapping at people with out meaning it. If you feel yourself getting mad at someone, just take a moment to think before you lash out with your words because at this point in your life, you really don't want to be losing friends.
If your depression gets serious and leads to anything futhur, please let me know and I'll do all I can to help you!
I feel very sorry for you. It's scary when parents fight! My parents fight all the time and take it from me, don't worry. Sometimes, if two people don't get along at all, it's the best if they do break up! That way they would be happy. I know it's sad but just remember, your parents would love you just as much no matter if they break up or not.
For your friend situation, think which one has been a better friend to you, who likes you for who you are, and not what you have.
Vi, hope it helps! xx
Parents fight! It's, unfortunatly, just nature. I remember once my parents were fighting in the night and I was in tears thinking they'd break up... The next day it was almost like nothing ever happened! But if it's heppening alot and is scaring you anyway you must speak to them or write them a letter.
As for your friend being left out, stand up for her. If the others say not to, ignore them! It's unfair to leave people out so don't let people stop you doing the right thing.
hope it's all ok and have a very merry christmas!
Love Lily xxx
Right, to start off, you have to tell your boyfriend how you feel. He maybe has some problem of his own and just needs a little space for a while.
Don't tell Lizzy!!! If you do, Lucy's life will be wrecked forever! Two wrongs don't make a right - however mean Lucy's been, it doesn't mean you should do it back. If Lucy is upsetting you or your friends, tell someone who can help. It's not cool to put people down, even if the most popular people do it...
Hope this helped xxx
Look at your boy friend, tell him that to stop ignoring you and to talk to you in front of your friends. Also tell him that he is like a stranger to you now because he never talks to you.
Hope it helps.
I think the best thing to do is to talk things out with him and tell him how you feel because you guys might not be right for each other.
Next, I don't think you should tell Lizzy because it might make Lucy's life miserable.
That's just what I think.
Making friends is not too hard! Just find somebody who you think is loyal, kind, caring etc and begin to try and befriend them. If you see them sad, cheer them up. If they are on their own, ask if they wanna hang out with you. Don't go mad and follow them arround buying them presents and cards because they will just get annoyed with you.
I'm glad you are still friends with your other friends even if you aren't best friends.
Love Lily xxx
I personally don't think you should break friends with them because the more friends the better. You could just ask them to stop doing what they are doing that's annoying and maybe it will all work out. I think I would just ignor them.
Honestly, I think you shouldn't be friends with a person just because they are popular. Before agreeing to be friends with a person, you need to know they are a true friend. As for your other friend, you should try telling her if she is annoying you and what she's doing. If she is a good friend, she shouldn't get annoyed with you for saying that but understand and try to stop.